Using communication in different
ways
Stolovitch (2012) made it clear
that “communication is not just words. He said that 93% of communication is not
in words.” This therefore means that when communicating individuals need to
pay attention to the tone of the voice, or words, body language which is
observed in face to face communication. Stolvitch mentions that, “ the spirit
and attitude” of the individual is also very critical. Divencenzo in the book
project mangers stay in charge, states that, “even small miscommunication can
wreck big havoc.” He continues to say that to minimize the chances for
misunderstandings and hurt feelings, project managers should confirm the
important decision in informal discussions.”
In the media presentation on the
art of communication the three methods of communication all portrayed something
different. In the communication via the email it came over in a very personal
manner. (showing concern for the individual. "I know you have been busy”.) The
purpose was clear, (I need a ETA on the missing reports) the tone very
respectful, and a solution is presented to solve the problem. The tone seems
very relaxed.
In the voice mail the message
came a little forceful and demanding. In as much as the listener is not seeing
the communicator he needs to pay more attention to this. The voice is not as
pleasant and the tone seems to desperate.
In the face to face communication
the young lady was clear and the purpose
was specified but the speaker seemed far removed from Mark There was not a sign
of closeness except that the conversation appear to take place in the office showing
some form of familiarity. I noticed the body language did not convey the
urgency of the message .Also the speaker did not wait for response nor strike a commitment with Mark. Had she attempted to get Mark to
respond or secure a commitment from him it would have created a
better tone from the letter. The speaker's
position seemed to far removed, Her arms were folded throughout the
conversation which is not a positive sign.
From this it is clear that
communication is necessary that project managers should use as many forms of communication
available to him /her to transmit information. He /she should bear in mind that
for each form of communication used there are some basic principles that should be applied to
help bring the message clearly.